Owner: Negotiable Virtue URL:http://negotiablevirtue.wordpress.com/ Join Date: Sun, 06 Jul 2008 17:16:59 -0500 Rating:0 Site Description: I was arrested on February 29th, 2008 & charged with four counts of matters related to prostitution. On August 8th, I will plead guilty to one count of assignation (scheduling appointments for prostitutes). Most likely, the other three counts will be drop
Internet Access 2008-08-15 13:06:40 I apologize for not updating my blog daily, as I usually do. I am in the process of moving & having my internet installed. I should be up & running by next Thursday.
Thanks for your patience!
Salon.com Interview 2008-08-05 16:18:39 I did an interview with a writer from Salon.com last week. Here is a link to the interview. There are a few misquotes, but nothing major. I hope you enjoy the read!
http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/08/05/call_girls/
Attractiveness 2008-08-05 06:16:22 I had a boy send me an email, in regard to my adult sex classes. He said he was fit & attractive & wanted to know if he could be paired up with a girl. I always giggle when a boy assumes he is attractive to me. I find boys with bald heads, goatees, & hard medium sized tummies to be the most attractive. I am not into the fit boys!
Frustration 2008-08-04 10:54:58 I am incredibly frustrated. Although my attorney, Barry Helfand, is brilliant when it comes to the courtroom, he is a twit, when it comes to anything administrative. Apparently, he double booked my next court appearance which was originally this Friday. Therefore, he had to reschedule me & I have to wait an additional three weeks to get on with my life. By then, it will be six months from the time I was arrested to the time I am able to complete the stupidity of the court process. It feels like it is neverending.
Leg Cramp! 2008-08-03 21:52:16 I absolutely love watching boys play with themselves. The look on their face is incredibly erotic & intense to me. So, while having sex with my boyfriend recently, I suggested, he finish up by ejaculating on my tummy. As I watched my boyfriend, an unusual look crossed his face. One that I had never seen before. However, in the arms of passion he continued undaunted. Then, not only did his face become contorted, so did his actions. His aim went haywire & he ended up giving my wall a facial as well as everything close to me, except for me. Finally, he collapsed from exhaustion & a leg cramp. It seems he was not into the whole “pain & pleasure” thing!
Forklift Bitch 2008-08-03 21:31:14 It seems that the off season for being a stagehand has ended early this summer. I have been on the National Mall for the past two days doing stagehand stuff for 9 hours each day, such as being a forklift bitch. No, I am not special enough to be a forklift operator, but I am the wench who jogs next to the lift, as required by the National Parks Service.
I am pretty tolerant of such circumstances, considering I am being paid well to be the trained pony. However, I almost lost my little bit of decorum today, when one of the forklift operators jokingly said, as I approached him “I have never been paid so much to do so little!” That’s okay. I am going to fix his little wagon, when I become a certified forklift operator & steal his job. Now there is a combination: whore & forklift operator! I need to figure out how to blend those thing together.
Ironically enough, the event I was helping to prepare for is police sponsored. Yeah, it gave me a bit
Website & Server 2008-07-30 17:45:12 I apologize for not updating my blog in a few days. I ran into a bit of a problem with my server. Everything is taken care of & there should be no further issues. Take a peek at my new website: http://www.NegotiableVirtue.com.
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The Woodhull Freedom Foundation and Federation (WFF) 2008-07-23 16:45:17 The Woodhull Freedom Foundation and Federation (WFF) work through research, advocacy, and public education to affirm sexual freedom as a fundamental human right.
We address laws, government policies, and corporate practices that restrict sexual freedom and discriminate against people on the basis of their consensual sexual expression.
The Foundation addresses these issues through research and public education, while the Federation conducts strategic advocacy campaigns.
The global perspective of the Foundation and Federation relies on research and analysis of laws, judicial decisions and enforcement practices.
Through education, we seek to mobilize diverse communities, write model legislation, build alliances, and change public attitudes to advocate for the sexual rights and responsibilities of all.
Specifically:
We educate the public on the importance and value of sexual freedom and counter the arguments of groups seeking to restrict sexual rights;
We advocate for decriminalization an
“the stupidity of some girls “ 2008-07-23 16:09:37 I am stunned at the stupidity of some girls in the sex worker industry. Through the grapevine, I heard that a sex worker wanted to visit me at my former residence, because she had questions about a domain name that I own. This is the same sex worker who was listed in my arrest report, although she was not arrested along with me. However, her previous arrest for prostitution, stage name, full name, address, birth date, driver’s license number, & license plate number were listed in the report.
She wants to see me in person? You have got to be friggin’ joking! No only am I going to avoid her like the plague, I will make sure I never have contact with her again. You would think after being arrested once in 2002 & then popping up on someone else’s arrest report she would take it as a sign from the universe that she should drop out of the industry. However, she obviously sees it as a challenge & continues to use her original stage name. To top it all off,
Sex Crimes Officer Arrested During Prostitution Sting 2008-07-23 09:30:42 A Metropolitan Police Department (web|news) officer, serving with the Sex Assaults Unit, was arrested for soliciting an undercover officer during a prostitution sting, according to police sources.
Police sources said Detective Elgin Wheeler was arrested around 2:30 Thursday morning when he approached the disguised female officer at the intersection of West Virginia Avenue and Neal Street.
Detective Wheeler has been the recipient of several awards and commendations for his service in the police department. He has been with the department since 1989. Police confirm that he was off-duty and in plainclothes at the time of the arrest.
“I’m disappointed. Shocked and disappointed,” said resident Barbara Thompson. A local man adds, “He should be dismissed because he’s in the public eye. He’s supposed to be a role model for the kids.”
People who live in the Trinidad neighborhood are raising an eyebrow, after their community has been overrun recently wit Read more:sex
Class Program Suggestions, Please 2008-07-17 05:25:42 I am in the process of organizing the couple’s sex classes. In the past, I did everything by email. However, in order to make things simpler, I am in the process of looking for a meet up program online. I have used www.meetup.com, as well as online groups, such as Google or yahoo. If you have any suggestions, please let me know.
Friends 2008-07-17 05:05:13 A few years ago, someone asked me what kind of neighborhood I grew up in. Was it all white or multiracial? I paused for a moment & realized I did not have a clue. I could remember names & events, smells & laughter, but I could not describe the colors of my friends. When I mentioned that to my mother, she went into her favorite hording closet & returned with a small picture. In it was a group of grinning children, with my brother & me in the center. We couldn’t be more than four & five-years-old. Surrounding us was a sea of brown faces. Black, Asian, Hispanic, & suntanned white children. I now realize at the time, it did not matter what color our friends were. It only mattered who could run the fastest, throw the furthest, climb the highest, & read the best. We were simply friends without a color.
Movie: Wall-E 2008-07-16 23:45:27 One of my true delights in life is Pixar movies. They are one of the few companies that put out great movies, without a doubt. Wall-e is probably one of their best. It has so many different meanings. I can envision someone seeing it repeatedly over the course of their life & coming up with a new meaning every time. I also have to add that Wall-E was the first animated movie to ever make me cry. HEY, I AIN’T ASHAMED
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For over a dozen years now, the best name in American film has been Pixar. No movie star, no director, no writer, producer, or studio approaches its level of consistent excellence. Even Pixar’s weaker offerings (A Bug’s Life, Cars, and–in my moderately heretical view–Finding Nemo) have exceptional depth and texture, moral as well as visual. And its best efforts (Toy Story, The Incredibles) are simply transcendent, rivaling the finest live-actio
Masters & Slaves Together: Washington DC 2008-07-16 06:11:25 http://www.mastwashington.org/
Helping each other… learning from each other!
MAsT: Washington exists as a support group for men, gay, straight or bisexual, involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.
It is an opportunity and forum for like-minded men to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain/share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle. You do not have to own a slave or have a Master in order to attend our meetings.
The Chapter, based in the Nation’s Capital, was founded by Master Taino in April, 1999. MAsT Washington is now part of MTTA, Inc. a non-profit educational organization that runs also the annual Master/slave Conference and Master Taino’s Training Academy.
MAsT: Washington meets on the Second Tuesday of each month at 7:30 PM. Starting with our meeting in January 2008, we are gathering for an optional munch at 6:30 PM at the 1409 Playbill Cafe, 1409 14th Street NW, Washingto
Master/Slave Conference 2008 2008-07-16 06:07:01
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slaves, submissives, boys, girls, pups, bois, etc.
The largest gathering of Masters and slaves on the East Coast!
Keynote Speaker: Master Skip Chasey
Over 40 workshops on Dom/sub relationships
Northeast Master/slave Contest
slave Auction
Vi Johnson Leather History Library
Vendor Market
Receptions & Banquet
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(MsC Rate expires July 24)
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Floating World 2008 2008-07-16 05:58:39 Welcome to Floating World!
Only 16 days left until Registration Closes! (Aug 1)!
No, we are not selling tickets at the door!
No tickets sold to anyone after Aug 1st!
Floating world is the largest and most successful BDSM/Fetish/Alt event in the Northeast, and the largest all-indoor event in the United States. Encompassing more than 60,000 SF under one roof, with 140 planned classes, a 6,000 SF fetish fleamarket area, a 40,000 SF playspace and some of the most amazing playgear you’ve ever seen.
We have facilities for nearly any group - gay, straight, bi, D/s, M/s, S&M, pet play, pony play, bondage, whips, medical, fireplay and more!
Rate Extension!
We had a technical glitch and our registration server was down for a few days, so we’re extending the discount rate until July 20th to give everyone a fair shot -
Black Phoenix After-Party!
We know one of the hardest things about Floating World is when it ends - so we’ve made arrangements with the New Phila
Couples Sex Class Motto 2008-07-15 22:04:36 My boyfriend suggested that my new motto for my couples sex classes be “Magical Lizzy: Let your Dolphins Dance”, in reference to this blog (http://negotiablevirtue.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/dolphins-dancing/). I suggested “Magical Lizzy: Become Infamous”. What are your thoughts?
Insight from an ex 2008-07-15 19:56:21 I asked my ex-boyfriend what conversation I should have with any suitors, before I begin a relationship with them. I am sorry; he prefers that I call him a lover, verses ex-boyfriend. He said I should tell them the following:
“Look, I like you and all, but there are a few things you should know. I am extremely emotionally disassociated from other people and do not enjoy, nor do I want to learn to enjoy, deep emotional connections. Based on my past experience, it is highly likely that if we continue, you will find me interesting, fascinating, exotic, and entertaining. This has led people to fall in love with me. Because I am outgoing, friendly, and expressive in my interest in other people, they tend to interpret this as having a great deal more meaning to me than it does to them. This is not the case. It is HIGHLY unlikely that I will fall in love with you, and even if that highly unlikely event should occur, I would still DEFINATELY move on to someone else within the next
A Seed 2008-07-15 13:12:52 A friend of mine wrote this beautiful poem. It gave me chills, when I read it. I loved it so much; I ask to add it to my blog, with his website link attached. He approved the poem, but not the website link. I think he is a bit shy. Perhaps your comments will give him some confidence.
Silvery sparkles and swept back wings
I hunger as I think of dirty things
So delicate, so sweetly svelte
My appetite is whetted and deep desire felt
I want you more than I can say
But yet you giggle and dance away
Growling, yes, I gnash my teeth
Fettered and restrained, I’m just a beast
So succulent and dancing near
You tease me more, but I feel your fear
My tongue lolls out in a feral grin
Like the big bad wolf, I want in
Dance my pretty, prance and sway
Dance upon my web of silver-gray.
As you come closer, so nervous and tense
I chuckle and retreat towards my defense
You can’t touch me I call with a tease
You can’t bring me to my knees
Ah, you come closer and closer still!
Ins
Think 2008-07-06 13:46:57 I am moving in the near future. I purchased a house in April of 2007 & I absolutely LOVE it. It was built in 1933 & has all of the original hardwood floors. It is beautiful. However, I HATE house living. I hate mowing the lawn, maintaining the the basement, & general up keep. I have had many suggest I move into a condo. However, I want nothing to do with taxes. I also prefer to have people come & fix my stuff, when something goes wrong. Therefore, I am moving back into a one bedroom apartment.
It’s funny. When I went to look at some apartments, I felt instantly relieved, as I walked into the models. They were small, organized, & cozy. I knew I was making the correct decision. The change in philosophy would have never been possible, unless I took the time to live in my own house. It’s certainly nothing someone can teach you.
If you think having your own home is the American dream, think again. Think about all the time, money & energy yo
The Perfect Barbie Doll 2008-07-06 10:30:19 When I worked in a professional dungeon, my favorite boys were the ones I could dress up like Barbie dolls. I loved to see their whole persona change, with each glide of a make-up brush. I loved how they could walk better on 6” stilettos than I ever would. I loved how they towered over me, yet still remained graceful. I loved how they adored me for accepting their kinks, without judgment. It’s wonderful to be adored by the perfect Barbie doll.
Cross Dressing Tip: If you want to walk like a girl, with a lower center of gravity, walk heel to toe. That position makes your hips pop out & lead, rather than your shoulders.
Let go & roll away. 2008-07-06 09:39:45 My mother’s best friend was recently in a motorcycle accident. Her bike was totaled, as were some of her body parts. In relaying her story to me, she said something very interesting. The police officer said that she survived the accident, because she let go of her bike. He said most bikers hold on to their bike even tighter, when they believe they are about to crash. However, you should not. Your chances of surviving the accident are greatly increased, if you let go & roll away.
Speaking of Mug Shots… 2008-07-05 18:55:36 While I was surfing the net for mug shot, I found these lovely people. I guess my picture is not as bad as I thought.
father & son!
Where’s your picture? 2008-07-05 18:44:23 I love it when boys do not read my website & want to know where my picture is, as though I am a whore with an hourly rate. So, of course what picture do I direct them to? My mug shot! I am so wonderfully naughty.
Bumping Naughties 2008-07-05 08:48:31 When I try to find the source of my sex positive philosophy on life, there is one main source, my mother. She never ceases to amaze & entertain me. On my last trip to my parent’s house, she began to try & motivate me to the guest house. I guess I was not moving fast enough, when she said, “Look, I have not had sex with your father in a week, due to the family reunion. You know how loud I can be. If you would take your act over to the other house, I would be grateful.”
When my father first went to the hospital for his cancer diagnosis, I was very careful to knock on the room door & wait for my mother to say “Come in” or to call in advance, from the parking lot, to let her know I was on my way. My fear was I would open the door too soon & see my parents bumping naughties!
I am sure my father’s quick recovery has to do with his medical treatment. However, I am positive my mother’s naughtiness was a huge help.
What the hell is wrong with you? 2008-07-05 08:35:29 Recently, while visiting my parent’s in Virginia, my aunt & uncle, were visiting as well. In one of our conversations, I was explaining the polyamorous philosophy to my uncle, with my aunt in earshot. My uncle began to nod, with a Cheshire cat grin. My aunt, not approving, sat down beside him & protectively said, “Don’t listen to a word she is saying.”
I went on to explain that I believed women were a disservice to their marriage, when they did not have sex with their partners at least every other day, considering men need to ejaculate in order to be healthy.
She became defensive saying, “You just don’t understand. Women’s hormones change, as they get older & sex is not as important.” I actually understood that completely. Frequently, hormones make the body change, such as not lubricating the vaginal wall sufficiently. Can you say bottle lubricants or blow jobs?
At this point, I wanted to know why she was being so defensive, considering the conversation had
Instant Messenger Curiosity 2008-07-05 07:00:04 I am fascinated as to why people make the effort to contact a stranger on their instant messenger, just because they popped up on their buddy list. I have had that happen a dozen times, since I opened up my messenger, since my hiatus. They want to know who I am & how I got on their buddy list. I am thinking, “If you do not know, then why are you asking me?” I just find it a bit curious & rude. What they are basically saying, without saying it, is “You are not important enough for me to remember.”
Commissioner’s Office 2008-07-04 10:41:03 In Maryland, once a person is allowed to leave their holding cell, they are transferred to the Commisioner’s Office. The Commissioner is the boy or girl who decides if you get bail, go back to jail, or go home to stay out of trouble on your own. When I arrived at the Commissioner’s Office, he had no idea what to do with me.
He read my report, which was 26 pages. Most are three. Then, he started talking about drug court. When I asked him what drug court was, he said “It’s where we take a look at your drug abuse & attempt to give treatment for all prostitutes.” I looked at him & said, “So I will be the only sober person there?” I then went on to say “I am a bit insulted. Although in this country, I am innocent until proven guilty, you have already made a judgement about me. Furthermore, you have already decided that I am a drug abuser.” I leaned forward & said “Do I look like a drug abuser?&r
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