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What Do You Dream About? 2007-06-21 02:45:12
What kind of dreams do you have? Do you dream about sex? Do you remember your dreams? Or do you have nightmares? According to a Canadian Study women dream about sex about the same as men do - about 8% of their dreams. But the similarities stop there. While men tend to dream about threesomes and sex in public places, women tend to dream about celebrities and other famous people or lovers from their past. Obviously they didn’t have some of the female sex bloggers in their sample!
I dream about sex but not as often as I used to. When I wasn’t getting it or when I wasn’t satisfied I used to dream about sex quite often. And it was rarely a sweet and romantic dream (if ever). It was usually a pretty hardcore, gang bang, backdoor action dream. I dreamt about a celebrity once - 50 Cent (who I don’t even really like much). But I have had dreams more intense that I’d ever imagined they could be. Once or twice I had sexual dreams that were so intense th
New Hobby 2007-06-20 01:08:21
My husband and I have found a new naughty activity to participate in together - watching live webcam shows. I’d never seen one before so I was quite fascinated by it. The web cam shows we’ve been watching have quite a variety. There are BBW’s, young girls, and women that do everything including live sex. And you can talk to them!
Each live web cam show (on the one we watch) has a chat option. You can just sit there and watch but you can also talk to her via chat - tell her how gorgeous she is, how hot she’s making you, or make a request. But if you make a request be sure to say please and don’t ask fifteen times or you’ll get booted!
I’m not sure what my husband likes more:
~ the fact that I’m even watching it with him
~ actually watching the cams
~ watching me get all worked up as we watch the cams
~ or when I talk to the cam girls
Whatever it is he loves it and so do I. We have a new late night/no kids at home hobby! Can you ca
New Hobby 2007-06-20 01:08:21
My husband and I have found a new naughty activity to participate in together - watching live webcam shows. I’d never seen one before so I was quite fascinated by it. The web cam shows we’ve been watching have quite a variety. There are BBW’s, young girls, and women that do everything including live sex. And you can talk to them!
Each live web cam show (on the one we watch) has a chat option. You can just sit there and watch but you can also talk to her via chat - tell her how gorgeous she is, how hot she’s making you, or make a request. But if you make a request be sure to say please and don’t ask fifteen times or you’ll get booted!
I’m not sure what my husband likes more:
~ the fact that I’m even watching it with him
~ actually watching the cams
~ watching me get all worked up as we watch the cams
~ or when I talk to the cam girls
Whatever it is he loves it and so do I. We have a new late night/no kids at home hobby! Can you ca
Lipstick That’s So Much More 2007-06-18 02:03:51 I found this cool little vibe the other day and I am just dying to get me one of these. Isn’t it adorable? Something you can carry around in your purse and no one would ever be the wiser.
This would be great for those opportunities when you see the hot guy (or girl) and get all worked up and just need to get rid of some tension. This baby is supposed to be almost silent so you could even use it in the office at work if you want to. And don’t tell me none of you have ever gotten off on a little office masturbation while you’re at work! I know you have.
This could also be fun to tease your guy with. Come up to him when you’re in the mood but he needs a little convincing. Kiss his neck, his ears - whatever turns him on - and then slide your hand between his legs with this hidden in your palm. He’ll never be expecting it when you turn this baby on and let it hum on his cock or his balls through his pants. If that doesn’t get him interested not
Curves - a Love Story 2007-06-14 00:34:02 When he saw her walk into the bar - how long ago was it? 14 years now? - that first time his jaw hung low and he felt a stirring in his groin that he hadn’t felt in a long time. She wasn’t like the other girls at his university or like the girls that flirted with him at the restaurant where he waited tables. She was - more.
As she walked past him her hips swayed with confidence that girls his own age didn’t have. They were either too shy or they overcompensated by acting all trashy. Not this woman (because she was no girl). She didn’t need to flirt, or to wear a low cut shirt or jeans that were a size to small. She wore a skirt that skimmed her full hips, knee high boots with a heel that was sexy but didn’t look like it was going to kill her, and a top that flowed over the mound of flesh on her chest without calling great attention to it. But she looked amazing. He couldn’t tell if it was the way she walked, the natural grace of her movemen Read more:Love
Confident Guys 2007-06-13 00:54:59
There’s something about a guy with confidence that is sexier than anything else. I mean, it doesn’t hurt if he looks like the guy above, but confident men are hot.
A guy who is confident can make you believe. He makes you believe that he can pleasure you. He makes you believe that he could be the one. He makes you believe in all the possibilities.
Of course, sometimes that turns out to be a total sham. He’s all confidence and no action. But you won’t know until you try right? Personally, I think these guys are more fun to flirt with than anything. If you keep it to flirting, there’s no disappointments. And they are great fun to fantasize about too!
Then, on the other side of the coin, when a guy has confidence coupled with some real qualities, like a sense of humor, sensitivity, and a genuine personality - whoa - you got yourself a winner! Hang on to that one baby because he’s a keeper!
Wanna Have a Sugasm With Me? 2007-06-12 01:42:24
The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #84? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
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Saying No (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)“Would saying no really make it all okay?”
Beyond slutdom (junohenry.wordpress.com…)“My eclectic slutfest continues, and I continue to love it.”
A guide to my erogenous zones (orangeuglad.blogspot.com…)“Not that you need it, but i thought i’d share it with you.”
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Editor’s Choice
Small Town (secretlifeofaman.blogspot.com…)
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Shocking Stats 2007-06-11 01:57:37 Statistics make me crazy. Researchers are always spouting off statistics about how the “average man” or the “average woman” has this long of a cock or can’t get sexually excited after a certain age. The fact is that “averages” really mean nothing. An average is just the middle of the road. It isn’t the majority.
Let’s take penis length for instance. If you have 10 men that are 6 inches, 10 that are 7 inches, 8 that are 8 inches and 6 that are 9 inches then on the other end of the spectrum there are 4 guys that are only 4 inches, 6 guys that are 5 inches and two guys that are two and three inches. According to those stats (46 guys) the average is 6.5. But the fact is that more than half of those guys are actually bigger than that (24 to be exact). So stats don’t necessarily portray accurate results when they are talking about averages.
If they are talking ratios well, it all depends on how many people were in the samp
“Average” Guys 2007-06-08 01:13:54
Anyone seen the movie “Full Monty”? I loved that movie. Every time it comes on television I have to watch it. I love the whole movied but I love the end when the guys get dancing and do “the full monty”. It takes balls for a guy that isn’t “perfect” to take all of his clothes off yet when they do - no matter what they look like - it is just down right sexy.
And that’s what I like about this movie. It shows the world that even “average” guys are sexy. The major skinny dude, the pasty white gay guy, the old black dude, and especially the chubby white guy with his little “problem” - all of them are so hot. Why? Not because they have big schlongs (and let’s not forget the gay hottie with the cut abs who was hung) or because they look like models. Why? Because they are real. They’re human with imperfections and because of that they are rockin’.
I’ve never like pretty boys unless the
The Great Outdoors 2007-06-07 00:19:52 There’s a certain thrill of having sex outdoors that just can’t be beat. I’ve never had sex with a guy outside but back in my younger days I had a girlfriend. She lived with her parents and my place wasn’t good for sex either (kids and all) so a lot of our encounters took place outside.
I remember one night we’d been out having a few drinks and getting a little crazy and we ended up at a park. Despite the fact that it was October and pretty cool outside we ended up half naked on this little platform by the river. It started out innocently enough - kissing and giggling. But pretty soon the clothes started coming off. Well, not exactly off. Body parts got exposed. I felt wanton with my shirt and bra pulled up to my neck and her mouth at my breast. Every time she pulled away, the cool air would hit my nipples and they would positively ache with desire.
Then the pants came down the ankles and then the panties. Pretty soon she was fingering me and t
Get Wet 2007-06-06 07:30:39
I’m a Cancer so it seems logical that I would love water. And I do. Water in all of its forms is beautiful and so very sensual. Whether in a tub or shower, in a lake, or in a pool, water makes me feel exquisite.
I especially love rain. When summer is in the midst of it’s hottest days, the best thing in the world is a warm, evening rain. When I was a teenager I used to go wallking in the rain all the time. I remember once when I was about twenty I was going out with this guy that was Jim Morrison hot without the drugs. We’d been to a movie and when we got out the rain was just starting to come down. We waited for about ten minutes for a bus before we realized that there was no escaping the rain. So, we waited some more, made out in the street, and walked home. We jumped in the puddles, laughing like kids. Then we made out some more. By the time he left me on my doorstep my virgin mound was wet from more than rain!
Ever since then rain has made me feel sex Read more:Wet
A little bit off 2007-06-05 01:51:21
I’m having a little bit of an off day. First day back at work.
You get pics today. Enjoy.
Shaved, Trimmed, or Au Naturel? 2007-06-04 00:51:12
If you think that porn brought on the idea of the trimmed or bald beaver you’re wrong. This picture is from the early 19th century and many of the photographs of nude women from that time featured trimmed pubic areas.
Over time, it has become more popular. Trimming and shaving has become even more popular than going au naturel. It’s really just a matter of taste.
Trimming especially is something that some women like to have fun with. They can shave and trim the pubic hair into different shapes and designs. Some of the more popular designs are the Isoceles (a triangle with the tip pointing down), the Landingstrip (a very thing vertical line), and Driving Directions (pointing down). Believe it or not, there are more. Check out this site for some interesting options!
Shaving completely is somewhat controversial. For one, there are some that feel that men who like their women shaved bald must have a thing for little girls. Of course, we who have an open mind know be
Flashers 2007-06-01 02:27:33
I have just a tinge of an exhibitionist side and one of the treats my new husband has been exposed to is flashing. I used to do it when I was drunk and young but now I enjoy it just for fun.
Ever since the beginning of our relationship I’ve enjoyed the reaction I get from him by flashing him around the house. I’d flash him while he was talking to a friend or before he went out the door. Sometimes I’d flash him in the living room with the blinds wide open and he’d pretend to be all shocked because someone might see.
On our honeymoon I’ve given him a few public flashing moments. He first got a flash yesterday in the car as we drove out of the parking lot. Then he got a flash outside on the docks outside out hotel. Then a flash in the elevator. And then a flash in the public park. And don’t forget the flash on the tourist boat! He loves it. I make sure never to do it when he’s expecting it because that’s half the fun. And guess w
For The Ladies 2007-05-31 12:41:14 Guys, if period talk makes you cringe you might want to take a miss on this one. This blog is for the girls but guys are welcome to read as well if they aren’t all squeamish about “girl stuff.”
So ladies, that special day comes along, whether it is your honeymoon (like me) or a special anniversary, or maybe even the first time you plan to have sex with a new partner, and your period comes. Aaagh! Yes, my period came on my honeymoon! And early too! Damn thing.
Now, that doesn’t mean you have to curl up in a corner and suffer. Here are some options to consider:
1. Get over the mess. Some guys don’t care and some girls don’t. So, while you may want to skip the oral (or not - that’s a personal choice. You might have a really light period. Either way, consuming menstrual fluid is not dangerous to your health), any other form of sex is fine. Messy, but fine. Use an old beach towel to protect your sheets. Or move to the shower or bath
Home Movies 2007-05-30 17:35:00
Home movies have come a long way from the days of yesteryear. You can document any of the important activities of your life from your kids basketball games to your sex life. Yes, I said sex.
Now I know that a lot of people are hesitant about putting themselves in a movies or in pictures in a sexual way for fear of it getting “out there”. “Out there” could mean on the internet or it could just mean in the wrong hands but that’s still a scary thought and if your instincts tell you not to then don’t. Your instincts are there for a reason. But if you are with a partner that you know you can trust then home porn movies can be a lot of fun.
My new hubby and I bought ourselves a digital camera that makes little mini-movies and we had fun with that on our first night at the hotel (which has a great view of the lake and windows all along the outer wall). We got a great oral clip that I hadn’t imagined would be so sexy. I’m looking forward
Making Out 2007-05-30 00:17:19
Making out is fun and one of the greatest parts of being a couple. Seriously - when was the last time you had a good make out session with your partner? I’m not talking about kissing that led to foreplay that led to sex. I’m talking about a good old make out session with every ounce of your passion being shared and enjoyed mutually.
Making out is especially great if you do it at the spur of the moment in a place where it is least expected. Next time you’re at the mall with your partner, pull them into a hallway or behind a display and give them a long, wet, lingering kiss. Then continue your shopping. They’ll be thinking about that kiss for the rest of the day and the next time you’re alone they’ll be more than eager to continue it.
Or, try some more extended making out. Go out to a drive in or a park and make out like you did when you were a teenager. Go crazy. But no below the waist! Save that for later!
There’s a reason we were al
Rabbits are Fun 2007-05-29 10:22:23
Ok - this isn’t a rabbit - it’s a dolphin - but it does the same thing as the rabbit toy that I bought for my honeymoon. Yay! My fiance hasn’t been told about it yet but he’ll find it during the honeymoon and I won’t post this until then so as you read this we might actually be playing with it at this very moment!
This is a great toy for couples because it has so many uses. The woman can use it by herself or as he watches (a little mutual masturbation can be a lot of fun!). Slip a bullet inside the dolphin or the rabbit and then slide two fingers into the ring. You can use to stimulate your clit by itself or you can give yourself some finger penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time.
Now, give it to your guy and let him do the same thing to you. Finger play is great as foreplay or by itself.
Alternately, it can be used as a pseuod-cockring. Now, this won’t have the exact same effect as a cockring because this is very stretchy
Honeymoon Bliss 2007-05-28 22:22:59
Well, the wedding is over and I’m ready to move on to the honeymoon!
We had a great wedding. A sweet little old church (and I do mean old!) in a museum in my home town. It’s part of the display that our museum puts on and include an old school house, an old train station, a black smith, and a general store. The kids that were there had a great time exploring them and we got some great pictures!
Now, the honeymoon. For most people it’s not a big deal because let’s face it - most people don’t wait for the honeymoon to engage in sexual activities. So how do you make the honeymoon special?
Here are a few ideas for modern newlyweds:
- Focus on intimacy. Put everything else like kids, work, and other people out of your minds. Be with each other.
- Touch. If you’ve been together a long time, sometimes we forget about touch. Give each other a massage or go get massages together. Enjoy the sensuality of water - have a bath or a shower together or g Read more:Honeymoon
Honeymoon Bliss 2007-05-28 22:22:59
Well, the wedding is over and I’m ready to move on to the honeymoon!
We had a great wedding. A sweet little old church (and I do mean old!) in a museum in my home town. It’s part of the display that our museum puts on and include an old school house, an old train station, a black smith, and a general store. The kids that were there had a great time exploring them and we got some great pictures!
Now, the honeymoon. For most people it’s not a big deal because let’s face it - most people don’t wait for the honeymoon to engage in sexual activities. So how do you make the honeymoon special?
Here are a few ideas for modern newlyweds:
- Focus on intimacy. Put everything else like kids, work, and other people out of your minds. Be with each other.
- Touch. If you’ve been together a long time, sometimes we forget about touch. Give each other a massage or go get massages together. Enjoy the sensuality of water - have a bath or a shower together or g Read more:Honeymoon
Breasts Beautiful 2007-05-25 00:48:57 I found this Jane Mag piece at Nerve . It’s about breasts and supposed to show women what real breasts look like so that we can get over the idea that not all breasts look like model’s or porn star’s breasts.
I’m glad to see somthing like this in the media - especially in a magazine like Jane that is marketed towards younge women. Women do need to be proud of their bodies and realized that they come in all different sizes. Not just breasts but all of our bodies. No one is really perfect - if you look long enough you are bound to find a flaw.
I’m not sure that this portofolio quite hit the mark (read some of the comments by the women whose breasts were photographed) but if you’re attracted by real women’s bodies, you’ll enjoy this. Breasts are beautiful in all shapes.
Women’s Fantasies 2007-05-24 01:48:30
Here’s a big shocker - two thirds of women fantasize about group sex! Can you believe it? Well, I’m sure you can but there appears to be some people that find it appalling that women fantasize about things like group sex, sex with other women, and being kidnapped!
It’s articles like this that make women think that their fantasies are wrong, that somehow there is something wrong with them because of the things that turn them on. Is it wrong to think of having sex with someone other than your spouse? How about Brad Pitt? He’s the guy women fantasize about most often. Or better yet, Angelina Jolie - the woman that women fantasize about most often. And ohmigod, what if they actually masturbate thinking these perverse ideas? They must be completely disfunctional.
The truth is that women fantasize just as much as men do and it’s not always about candel light and the knight on the white steed that sweeps them off their feet. Sometimes they dream ab Read more:Fantasies
Fantasy Women - Good or Bad 2007-05-23 08:16:38 When men have a fantasy woman - and let’s face it, most men do - does it cause more harm than good to a relationship? Most women would vehemently answer, “Yes!” But it isn’t always harmful.
First you have to consider the two people in the relationship - how does each party feel about fantasies? Fantasy lovers? Does it make them feel inadequate? Does it make your wife feel like she could never measure up to the J. Lo in your brain? If that’s how your fantasy woman makes her feel than you definately have a problem.
First and foremost, whether you are a guy or a girl, your job is to make your partner feel like he or she is the most desireable and sexy thing on the planet. And if not on the planet, at the very least to you. They should know that when your hands touch them, when you’re kissing them, when you’re making love, there is no one else but them on your mind. If they don’t believe that then it is definately time to put away
Blogging and Dating - Are They Counterproductive? 2007-05-22 08:23:32
I read this article at Nerve.com today. The author said about blogging, “When it’s handed to me — and to the rest of the world — it’s hard to find it particularly appealing.” And I was kind of surprised.
I like that fact that you can find out (sometimes, because let’s face it, not everyone has a blog, although it seems like it sometimes) things about a person before you get emotionally invested. I like that I can find out if he’s got a fetish for animal-love before I actually start to like a guy. And I like that I can find out that he’s really close to his mom.
I also like the fact that he can find out about me and if he still shows up it means that he’s ready to deal with the fact that I have a couple of kids, and write porn/erotica, and am a little obsessive about oral sex. In fact, my fiance read my blog on Windows Live something or other before he met me. At the time I’d done a 101 things about me blog entry tha
Sugasmic!! 2007-05-22 05:11:09 The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #81? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
A Blue Hot Horny House Call (dirtydetails.blogspot.com…)
Part Three: Sorbet at Night ( smart-girls.blogspot.com…)
Tighter: the hotel (erotischism.blogspot.com…)
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Photo Manipulation (sugarbank.com…)
Editor’s Choice
Office Masturbation - part one (eroticawriter.blogspot.com…)
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Taste yourself: another irritating tool of misogyny (in which I do get explicit) ( un-cool.blogspot.com…)
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Reinventing Love Letters 2007-05-21 09:24:09
Think love letters are old fashioned and outdated? Think again. Lover letters aren’t just the mushy ramblings of the past. Love letters today can be anything you want them to be.
Some time after my fiance and I got together I wrote him a love letter for his birthday. But it certainly wasn’t anything he could share with anyone. It was naughty and spicy and he loved it!
Love letters can be a great way to show someone what a great time you had with them. Love letters can also point out the things that you loved so that you can be sure they’ll do it again and again. They can make your partner feel appreciated and important.
Don’t be afrai to say a few naughty words. As far as I’m concerned, the naughtier the better! Tell them what you want to do again. Let them know how good they felt. Describe something you particularly enjoyed in explicit detail.
And love letters aren’t just for girls. Give it a try guys. Even if your spelling is bad
Top Ten Wonderful Things About Bums 2007-05-18 07:31:55
I love bums. Bums are great and even if they’re not “picture perfect” they can be admired. Take a look at the vintage photo - wonderful photography - great bum - even if not by today’s standards.
So, Autumn’s Top Ten Wonderful Things About Bums:
10. Everyone has one. So, because everyone has one no one should be ashamed of their’s and should be able to show it off randomly in a great pair of jeans, skinny dipping, or in a bathing suit.
9. Everyone has different tastes so there is someone out there that will love your bum.
8. Bums are fun to touch. They’re soft and mushy and are great to hold on to when…well, whenever you please really!
7. Bums make a wonderful sound when slapped by a bare hand, a paddle, or a riding crop.
6. Bums are very sensitive. Running your finger tips over a bum can send chills through the recipients spine! In a good way.
5. Bums are cute on kids, animals, women, and men.
4. Baby bums are the most
Porn for Couples 2007-05-17 06:19:02 Porn isn’t just for those guys hiding out in a dark room wanking off and obsessing about women they will never have. Ok, ya, those guys are still there but most of them are harmless. But more and more couples are watching porn these days and loving it. Believe it or not, there was a time when, in order to rent porn or buy porn you had to go into a dank store at the end of the street everyone was afraid to walk down. Inside you might see a few guys who’d look furtively at you while they scoured the aisles for something new.
It’s not like that anymore though. You can rent porn in broad daylight and there are likely to be just as many couples as there are single guys. There might even be a single girl or two.
So what is the big difference? The diffrence is there is more quality porn available. Ok - yes, it’s still porn and if watching others have wild, uninhibited sex doesn’t do a thing for you, you’re still not going to like it. But the se Read more:Porn
Blind Faith 2007-05-16 09:07:40
Wearing a blindfold willingly implies complete and total faith. And when you’re wearing one in the bedroom you REALLY need to know you can trust the one you’re with. You trust him or her to know where your boundaries are. You trust him or her not to cross them - maybe push them a little, but not completely over step them. You trust him or her to treat you the way you want and need to be treated.
That being said, imagine the possiblities…
Blind Faith
by Autumn Seave
I couldn’t see anything beyond the blindfold but the smell of the leather was intoxicating. My flesh tingled in anticipation. And not just for moments but for many minutes. I didn’t know what to expect - I could only hope for his touch.
And then it came - barely.
A cinnamon scented finger traced the curve of my breast, my waist, my hips, my thighs. Then, full hands upon me in an oily seduction. Kneading my flesh, his voice pampered my mind.
“Patience, my pet.”
A pi
Get Naked! 2007-05-16 04:18:06 I have never understood why so many people are afraid to be naked. Being naked is the most natural thing in the world. So what if your thighs are too thick? So are mine and about 75% of the rest of the population. No one cares but you! Saggy boobs - be proud of them. You’ve gone through a lot of life and experience to get to the saggy boob stage! Bodies change and you can’t have the body you had when you were 18 forever. In fact, you really only get that body for about a year and then things start changing.
After your teens your body metabolizes food differently. That means your thighs get thicker, your breasts are fuller, and you hips widen. It happens a little bit more every year and it happens whether or not you have children. Some people’s bodies change slower than other but in the end none of us look like we did when we were 18. The sooner we accept that fact the sooner we can get back to loving our lives, loving our bodies, and getting naked.
Are you
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