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Stereotypes...Really? Still? 2007-05-25 13:47:00 As the title suggests, I've been thinking about stereotypes lately, particularly those involving women's sexuality, and was wondering if they actually still exist in mainstream U.S. culture.Stereotypes like:Women Don't Masturbate.Women Don't Like Sex.Women Aren't As Sexual As Men.Women Only Have Anal Sex To Please The Man.Women Who Are Overtly Sexual Are Sluts.Women "Bring On" Rape When They Dress Too "Provocatively."Women Are Sexually Submissive/Shy.Women Don't Feel The Need To Orgasm During Sex.Etc...These issues are talked and written about a lot, but how many people honestly still believe in them? Part of me feels like women have finally found their rightful place in Sexual Wonderland, and that people keep bemoaning these old stereotypes because they have nothing else to write about. After all, it's much easier to write an article telling women to "express themselves sexually" or "it's OK to feel sexual regardless of what people think" than it is to come up with new and tru
Erotic? What's That?! 2007-05-20 15:20:00 I came across an interesting blog article called Where is the Real Sex? It's not on a sex blog per se, but the author brought up a good point, arguing that sex in American pop culture (music, movies, etc.) has lost its erotic appeal. Val concludes, "too many Americans are not afraid of sex but eroticism terrifies them." And I think I agree, though admittedly I haven't given this much thought yet.To help me work through this issue I consulted the all-knowing Merriam-Webster dictionary online. According to this oracle, Erotic is: "of, devoted to, or tending to arouse sexual love or desire" or "strongly marked or affected by sexual desire." Hmm, sounds good, but what exactly is Desire? Apparently it's "to long or hope for" and "stresses the strength of feeling and often implies strong intention or aim."So as I understand it, an erotic scene would be one that causes the viewer to become sexually aroused, but on an emotional level (hence the sexual love part) as well as a physical one,
Masturbating in Bed & Other Such Goodies 2007-05-15 16:40:00 As masturbation month continues, I've been giving some thought to how couples view their own and their partner's masturbation. Although I've heard from many people, both men and women alike, that watching their parter masturbate turns them on and can be a great lead in to sex, I'm wondering how people feel about their partner's solo masturbation. That is, do people mind their significant other masturbating by themselves, for their own benefit, rather than the combined enjoyment of watching/being watched?My assumption is that most people wouldn't care either way. So what if he/she masturbates in the shower, or when they are alone during the day? It's just a quick release. A moment of self-interested pleasure that may actually put them in a better mood during your together time later on.But what happens when you wake up in the middle of the night to a shaking bed and heavy panting? Are you still just as accepting if your partner is selfishly masturbating with you right next to the
5 Reasons Why Masturbation is Good for Mothers 2007-05-11 14:22:00 I have to start by thanking Kristofer for pointing out that May has been declared National Masturbation Month since 1995 by the wonderful people over at Good Vibrations. How this has slipped by me is anyone's guess, so I'm giving you, my dear reader, my not-so-sincerest apologies for having missed this monumental event in the past.That being said, this weekend is also Mother's Day, and I think it would be fun to celebrate both events at once. Here goes.Apparently Masturbation Month was declared as a way of raising awareness about masturbation and taking away the taboos that surrounded this incredibly common, though rarely discussed, practice. Twelve years later, I think masturbation has finally secured its place as an accepted and rather mundane part of almost everyone's life - except perhaps the very conservatively religious among us. Even Christians are finding ways to reconcile their beliefs with masturbation. Because of this, Masturbation Month seems to have transformed into a
"Hot Man's" Best Performance Yet! 2007-05-10 10:30:00 Yes, I'm allowed to feed my own pathetic obsessions too! But for everyone else who enjoyed last weeks piece on Julien the Hottie, trust me, this performance is even better! Be patient, he starts off "normal" and "calm" but...wait for it...wait for it...TINGLES! Yum.Technorati tags:julien, lolita, naughty, Nouvelle Star, opinion, sex, sexuality, sexy, Sexy men, speak sexyRose Rivera is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in Family & Sexuality Studies. She is the owner and webmaster of Speak Sexy Blog (http://SpeakSexy.blogspot.com) and Speak Sexy Online (http://www.speaksexyonline.com), one of the fastest growing sexuality sites on the net!
5 Ways to Get Her On Top 2007-05-07 16:15:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of WomenFor many heterosexual men having their women in the active, or "on top," position during sex is one of the most physically intense and emotionally gratifying ways to make love. Unfortunately a lot of women are very hesitant to take on this dominant role for two reasons; they don't like their bodies so they don't want their partner's to see any more of their bodies than is necessary and they are afraid they will "do it wrong." Men can help ease these concerns by being aware of how vulnerable being on top makes their woman feel, and by responding with care and sensitivity.Below are five of the best ways to make your woman feel comfortable about getting on top.Tell Her How Beautiful She Is - I know it sounds trite, but sincerely telling her just how hot, sexy, and gorgeous you think she is while in the heat of the moment will not only make her feel loved, but will give her the confidence she needs to put herself out there. Most
Wanna Know Who I Think Is Sexy? 2007-05-03 11:55:00 Aahhhh to be my Sexy Man. What does it take...Good looks, charisma, and charm? Sensitivity, sweetness, and compassion?Nope, no way, boring. To catch my attention you have to be risky, on the edge, and multi-faceted. I like a man who makes me go, "What?! What?!" and then, "What?!" He has to make me laugh with his quirkiness, excite me with his lack of conformity, and challenge my ideas of masculinity. He has to be thoughtful at times, borderline depressive at others, and then completely out of his mind when it's time to break free. I want him to take me on his emotional roller-coasters, drag me to my own limits and dangle me over the abyss - all the while knowing that no one else could be as symbiotically beautiful as we are together. Even if it is our dysfunctions that make us perfectly functional, he has to be dependable, honest, and totally committed. It's an unusual mixture, but these men do exist (I'm married to one). So when I see these traits in another man, I have to smile.Ju
In His Clothes 2007-04-29 14:57:00 Photo Provided By: Teddies, Thongs, Garters; I own them all. The purpose of these silky treasures is, of course, to entice my husband. When I want his eyes to light up, I combine thong and skirt. When I want his heart to race, I use the garters. And when I want his jaw to practically fall off, I create a complete ensemble including thong, garters, stockings, and teddie...But this is all to make him want me...When I'm feeling naughty and want turn myself on, I use another technique. I do something that makes me feel sensual, sultry, down right edible...I wear my husband's shirts.For me, nothing compares to the wickedly delicious sensation of surrounding my freshly showered skin in his unmistakably masculine scent. I love the way his cologne clings to the collars, and how small I seem in comparison. I'll press my face into the material, breath deeply, and imagine its his fingertips caressing my nipples as the shirt moves. Sometimes I slip into a thong, other times I prefer to remai
The Myth of Two Orgasms 2007-04-28 16:02:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of Women"Do Women Really Have Two Different Kinds of Orgasms?"I recently came across this question posted in a sex forum that I frequent and thought it was a topic that could certainly use some clarification!There is only one kind of orgasm. The only difference is how an orgasm is triggered. For most women (roughly 70%) orgasm can only be achieved via clitoral stimulation. A much smaller group can have an orgasm via penetration (often referred to as a vaginal orgasm), and a very small group can reach orgasm either way. Then again, some women have orgasms with nipple stimulation alone, or can be "trained" to have an orgasm on command...but this is getting very involved and complicated!No matter how orgasm is achieved, however, the reaction in the body is the same; increased circulation, respiration, flushing, increased muscular tension, and finally a series of intense vaginal and uterine contractions. The subjective experience of orgasm
Sex Swing - Illustrated Erotica 2007-04-26 17:21:00 Katie knew that Pete had bought her something big for her birthday but she hadn't expected… this."There, baby, what do you think?" he'd said, smiling slyly. "More interesting than flowers, wouldn't you say?"She'd opened her eyes to discover he'd installed a sex swing in the corner of their back room. The black harness was fixed firmly to the ceiling by a hook and hung on a spring above a mattress. The back support and stirrups were made of a soft, inviting fabric.After the initial shock, Katie began to think of the possibilities. Her pussy clenched in response. She'd always liked the idea of a sex swing. They seemed like the ultimate decadence, something owned by people who threw orgies and fucked each other three times a day. People who were passionate enough about sex to install major equipment and put holes in their ceiling.And she liked the idea of getting away from the bedroom too. Their back room was private and rarely used. Now it looked like some kind of nascent dungeon Read more:Erotica
Can Someone Really Love You AND Hit You? 2007-04-25 15:18:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of WomenNelli, one of my favorite fellow bloggers, wrote a post today asking exactly this question. Because I enjoyed her post so very much, I left a rather lengthy comment and thought I'd share it with you. Below is the comment, but be sure to check out the original post here.What Do You Think?!"Hi Nelli, I agree this is a great topic and one that is very emotionally heated. Do I think you can hit someone you love? YES. Do I think that justifies it or justifies staying in such a relationship? NO.At the core, we are animals. As much as we try to hide it, deny it, cover it up with fluffy moral chatter, we are designed to react violently to certain situation. I know this is a very unpopular view, but I do think that you can truly love someone, and given the right situation, hurt them physically.You mentioned cheating as an example. Catching your beloved with someone else, or learning about it afterward, can trigger very deeply held emoti Read more:Love
Un-Saintly Sexy Mamas 2007-04-23 11:21:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of WomenI have found a place on the internet where real women, who happen to be mothers as well, meet to talk about relationships and sex. At CafeMom not only do they chat about the normal "Oh, now that I'm a Mom I don't feel like having sex anymore" problems, but they also open up about every aspect of their sex lives. Message board topics include "Multiple Orgasms," "How Often Does Your Husband Masturbate?" and "Anyone Else Bi-Curious?" The discussions are graphic, uncensored, and brutally honest. I was very impressed by the thoughtfulness, open-mindedness, and supportive attitudes of these women.I was also pleasantly surprised to find that their were quite a few Groups dedicated to sexuality. Each group has hundreds to thousands of members and have very active communities. For instance, I posted an introduction and within twenty minutes had three replies. These women are lively, and certainly not shy!As you may know from my previ
Finally, a "YouTube" for Porn! 2007-04-15 14:54:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photo - The Art of WomenGo ahead, admit it. You've gone to YouTube and searched for "adult," "sex," "XXX," or "porn." Don't lie! You know you have...I'm sure you thought, "Surely somebody out there has uploaded themselves getting crazy on a Friday night!" But inevitably the disappointment sank in because even the videos marked for "content" are nothing more than PG-13 shots...The wonderful YouTube Cleanliness Committee has already searched for and destroyed any of the "really good videos."But cheer up, 'cause I have quite a treat for you this lucky Sunday! I've found it, the hidden porn treasure trove. A YouTube-like site just for adults...and it's completely free.No more 10 second clips, no more wasted time searching out adult content on non-adult sites...Now you can go to GEXO and see all the happy bopping you want!Apparently the site launched this January, so is still in the process of working out its "kinks" so to speak. As I mentioned, it is Read more:Porn, Youtube
When Was The Last Time You Got A Hickey? 2007-04-11 20:31:00 Photo Kindly Provided By: A. Kaye Photography - The Art of WomenI was watching a BBC show the other night and somehow the topic of hickeys came up. One man, probably in his forties, said "Yeah, I remember what a big deal hickeys were as a teenager...But adults don't give hickeys do they? I suppose it would be weird as an adult."When I heard this I was a bit taken aback, mainly because I'd never thought of it before. (A sex topic I hadn't thought about?! Really?!) So of course, I began to wonder...How do adults feel about giving and receiving hickeys? First of all, let's be clear about what a hickey, otherwise known as a "love bite," is. According to the all-knowing and all-powerful Wikipedia, a hickey is a "temporary mark or bruise on one's skin resulting from kissing or sucking or biting forcefully enough to burst blood vessels beneath the skin." Mmmmm, sounds sexy doesn't it? A bruise!This is perhaps the only kind of bruise that lovers routinely inflict upon each other without
Easter Bunnies were Great When I was a Kid... 2007-04-08 12:54:00 But Now They're Even Better!!Or These Bunnies!Rabbit MassagerImpulse Jack RabbitIt's good to be an adult! Happy Easter!Rose Rivera is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in Family & Sexuality Studies. She is the owner and webmaster of Speak Sexy Blog (http://SpeakSexy.blogspot.com) and Speak Sexy Online (http://www.speaksexyonline.com), one of the fastest growing sexuality sites on the net!
Is Beautiful Agony Pornography? 2007-04-06 16:10:00 Beautiful Agony is one of the hottest and most talked about erotic sites on the web. Claiming to be "dedicated to the beauty of human orgasm," this site posts videos of people who've filmed themselves masturbating to orgasm. So, what's the big deal? All videos are from the neck up only! That's right - no nudity, no explicit shots, no partner sex - just a face, some moans, and your imagination.Judging by its continually increasing popularity, people not only find watching orgasmic faces interesting, but highly erotic. In fact man commentors claim that Beautiful Agony is the most sexually exciting thing they've ever seen, especially in comparison to other "traditional" porn sites.So, while I have no doubt that watching someone else cum makes you want to do the same, can we really classify Beautiful Agony as pornography? After all, it's only showing faces! What's so "indecent" about a face making all sorts of "interesting" expressions, and "funny" noises?Maybe defining "pornography Read more:Pornography
Tricky, Tricky Cowper's Gland! 2007-04-05 13:12:00 Back in Sex School, my anatomy professor's favorite body part was the little known Cowper's Gland located just off of the male urethra. I know it was his favorite because he told us so countless times. Why was it his favorite? "Because this is the little bugger that gets soooo many people into trouble!" That's right, it's because of this teeny gland (actually it's two teeny glands) that the "withdrawal" method of contraception has such a high failure rate! You did know that the withdrawal method is NOT very effective against pregnancy, right?! Right?! Well if you didn't know before, you know now. Pulling the penis out of the vagina just before male ejaculation is NOT A GOOD WAY TO PREVENT PREGNANCY (and obviously does not prevent sexually transmitted infections either!) Here's the reason why.Let's return to the Cowper's Gland. If you start at the head of the penis and work your way up the inside of the urethra, you'll quickly find the Cowper's Gland. Its reproductive functio
Girl-on-Girl Porn - Guys, I need Your Help! 2007-04-01 14:45:00 Continuing with the theme of strange hetero-male obsessions, I'd like to talk a little about your fascination with lesbian porn. I've been thinking about this for a while now, and I still can't figure out the answer to...why?? What is the incredible appeal of watching two women go at it without even the hint of a male presence? After all, as fas as I know man-on-man porn is not such a big thing for hetero-women...So, what's with the lesbians?Here's what I've come up with so far:1. Women are beautiful and turn you on, therefore seeing two is even better than seeing one. OK, I can understand that.2. Girl-on-Girl Porn doesn't make you at all jealous because there's no man involved for you to consciously or unconsciously compete with. I suppose watching another man have sex with a "hot" girl might not do it for you because the thought "Why is she doing him and not me?" might be distracting. Right.3. Seeing his "bigger and better" penis makes you feel self-conscious. If this is you
What Type of Seducer are You? 2007-03-31 12:55:00 Here's a little silly fun for your Saturday...Apparently my seduction style is "Hard to Get." Hmmm...Figures! Enjoy!Your Seduction Style: Prized ObjectThe seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.What Kind of Seducer Are You?Rose Rivera is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in
How to Use Your Penis; Techniques for Large and Small 2007-03-26 12:43:00 Every morning my email inbox looks like this:"Don't be the smallest guy in the room anymore!""Try our all natural male enhancers!""Pump it up and make her smile!"Perhaps if I had a penis to begin with that would help. However, since I'm a woman and was conveniently born with a vagina, I find these emails even more intriguing. I know in our collective culture men are often portrayed as having unreasonable obsessions about their relative size, but is it true? Are men really that preoccupied with being bigger than everyone else, and if so, does penis size actually matter to women? Are men's concerns warranted?Unfortunately many of these questions I can't answer using the wonderfully reliable technique of personal experience, because like I said, I don't own a penis. So, I'll skip right to answering the big question that I am able to shed some light on...Does penis size make that much of a difference to a woman in bed?! Finally the definitive answer to this age old question is - drum Read more:Penis
Wanna Play Dr.? 2007-03-21 16:22:00 When she was threeHer barbies always did it on the first dateNow she's with me,There's never any need for them to demonstrate...Barenaked Ladies - "Life, In a Nutshell" -In today's world of high-profile child molestation and sexual abuse cases, one of our most used coping mechanisms as a society seems to be the complete denial of positive childhood sexual experiences. As someone who used to be employed in the child care industry, both privately as a sitter and professionally as a kindergarten teacher, I know how "touchy" this issue can be.When something even vaguely sexual came up, I reported it to the parents immediately - mainly to cover myself in case it became a contentious issue later on. For instance, around the ages of two-four, as many parents can relate, a common "problem" is that children take their clothes off and refuse to put them back on. Sure, you can make them stay dressed, but then you get to enjoy an hour of crying, instead of an hour of happy naked time. So, when
How Kinky is Your iPod? 2007-03-12 17:26:00 Yep, the iBuzz. Human ingenuity at its finest! I wonder who thought of turning the ultra-sleek Apple iPod into a discreet, music adjustable, sex toy! I also wonder how the Apple corp. feels about this naughty accessory. I'm sure they disapprove since it's not made by Apple, and has the possibility of tarnishing their carefully constructed image.Maybe that's one of the reasons I haven't heard of it before. Apparently there was an iBuzz One that slipped by me, and I'm catching on to the trend at iBuzz Two. Not that we usually see sex toy commercials on TV, but wouldn't this clip be great to stealthily insert during prime time on a boring Wednesday night? After all, there's no objectionable content - no nudity, no violence - just two small innocent buzzing things instead of headphones. And the bunny is so cute! Really, it has family appeal. But all jokes aside, the toy itself is a great idea. While the iBuzz One was, well, made for when you're going solo...the iBuzz Two allows for Read more:Kinky
The Allure of Darkness 2007-03-09 17:31:00 Sometimes inspiration comes in the strangest of places. As I was exiting the bathroom last night, instead of opening the door and turning off the light as usual, I accidentally turned off the light before opening the door, momentarily plunging myself into utter darkness. I was surprised by an unexpected feeling of delicious apprehension. I love being in the dark, but recently I haven't had the opportunity to sink into its depths. For reasons I won't go into here, I've had to sleep with a night light for the past few months, something I normally don't do because...like I said...I prefer the dark.So, as I stood there, perfectly alone, perfectly still...I began to feel...aroused. How curious, I thought to myself. I became instantly turned on just by flipping the light switch. Excited, focused, waiting...It really was that easy. Of course, because I enjoy these sensations so much, I lingered for a few extra seconds in the bathroom, just for the fun of it...Having experienced that, I be
Two Minutes of Perfectly Crafted Sexual Passion 2007-03-05 18:27:00 Before getting into the details of why I think this is one of the hottest kissing scenes ever made, I'll give you a very brief contextual recap. For those of you who haven't already seen "The Illusionist" (I highly recommend it), the characters in this scene were childhood sweethearts who were forced to separate. They accidentally find each other many years later. At this point she is engaged to be married to a prince (I think) and he is a highly respected touring magician. The sexual tension between them builds during brief, secretive meetings...until neither of them can hide their passion for the other. She goes to his house in the middle of the night to finally be honest, and to find out exactly where they stand...Now watch the clip (feel free to stop it after the sex is over!)So, let's go play-by-play through these absolutely delicious couple of minutes. First, they are angry and frustrated with each other. Always a good start for passionate sex. As she begins her tirade, he pau
Want to See a Live Pole Dance while Lounging on Your Own Bed? 2007-03-03 14:41:00 Just imagine you're a man (or maybe you really are a man, just go with it, OK?) and it's late on a Friday night...You turn down the lights, take off your clothes, and slip between the silky smooth sheets of your bed...In front of you, right there in your bedroom, is a gleaming silver pole...And you wait.After a few seconds the music starts...It's deep, hypnotic, and you begin to forget about your stressful week...Then, in your bathroom doorway, a woman appears...It's your wife...but there's something different about her tonight, something you can't put your finger on...She ignores you as your eyes follow her swaying hips to the pole...She begins to move, her body twisting, back arching...slowly at first...Her eyes are closed, and you feel like you're intruding on a private world all her own...It's both voyeuristic and intimate at the same time...You're mesmerized as her movements become more open, dynamic, revealing...She presses her belly and thighs against the pole as though
How to Seduce Your Lover with Compliments 2007-02-23 20:55:00 In my life I've been lucky enough to be on the receiving end of many compliments. To most I've said "thank you," and then promptly forgotten them. Some I've held onto for a while because they've made me blush or laugh, but inevitably I've forgotten those too. However, I have received a certain few compliments that I'm sure I'll never forget. I'll use two from my college years as examples.The first one was given to me by a homosexual guy (I'll explain why this is important later) at a party. We barely knew each other, and out of the blue he said, "You have perfect eyebrows." That's right, eyebrows! Interesting...The second one was given to me by a middle-aged stranger. I was walking across campus, minding my own business, when he stopped me and said, "You know, you have excellent posture. I work for a magazine and see a lot of models, but you're stunning just naturally. I'm telling you this because it's not something anyone else would probably tell you, and I wanted you to
Sexual Force in Women's Fantasies - Why Do We Have Them? 2007-02-21 15:15:00 Considered one of the most controversial topics in sex research today, the prevalence of force in sexual fantasies is both undeniable and unexplained. For a myriad of cultural and societal reasons, research into this topic is scarce and the findings are largely inconclusive. Their are, however, a few prevailing theories as to why people, women in particular, become aroused while thinking of scenarios involving the loss of personal control and/or submission - sometimes to the point of imagining mental and physical violence to themselves (as in rape fantasies).The most respected theories to date are the Sex-Guilt Theory (Knafo & Jaffe, 1984), Erotophilia-erotophobia Scale (Fisher, Byrne, White, & Kelley, 1988, p. 123), and the Feminist Perspective.Simply put, the Sex-Guilt theory suggests that women who feel the least guilty about their own desires and sexuality engage in more force fantasies than do women with a high degree of sexual guilt because the less guilt one has, the more open o Read more:Fantasies
"Good" Sex Values I'll Never Teach My Daughter - Part I - "Only Have Sex When You Are In Love!" 2007-02-18 15:07:00 I don't like this "L" word. I think it's confusing, convoluted, and is given way too much importance in Western societies. Love isn't a feeling or an emotion. It's a pattern or a way of life that two people who know each other completely and honestly fall into. It's based on shared values, dreams, memories. Essentially, love takes a lot of time to build, and it's not something you magically "feel" every second you are with your beloved. Love is something you know.To make things worse, this "L" word is often mixed together with the other "L" word...Lust. Lust is an incredible concoction of euphoria-producing hormones that run amok and cause us to do crazy things when our bodies see and/or smell a potentially prime mate! And as supposedly rational creatures, this chaotic state doesn't seem to be a good foundation for us to make decisions upon that could potentially make or break our lives...Yet people do it all the time under the disguise of "Love." "We got married for Love and n Read more:sex
The Artistry of Erotic Photography at Home 2007-02-15 12:29:00 If you haven't already noticed, I am in love with high-quality erotic photography, particularly female nudes. There's something about the graceful curve of a woman's breast, hip, or even shoulder that creamily blends together the carnal act of sex itself with the deeper, more profound emotions of making love. Being able to capture this delicious mixture on film (or in today's world in pixels!) is to me one of the best uses for photography.But my love of erotic photography doesn't stop at mere admiration. I also enjoy producing it, in private and at home. One of the things I enjoy most is showing my husband the results of my little adventures into the lens. Watching him admire the pictures makes me feel sexy and desired. Instead of surfing the web to see "hot" pictures of meaningless, random women, all he has to do is open a file on our computer with the knowledge that those pictures were made just for him.So, why am I telling you all this? Because I want to open you up to the pos Read more:Erotic
Intriguing Your Lover...Again 2007-02-13 16:02:00 My husband was as a Pirate for Halloween once. It was some of the best sex we've ever had.One of the main reasons sex is so exciting in the beginning of any relationship is because your partner is a new experience for you. Humans not only enjoy, but seek out new experiences all the time. It's just part of who we are. And while this adventurous streak leads us to do things like use fire and invent the wheel, it also leads us to stray from our long term and otherwise happy relationships.The good news is that providing novelty from time to time isn't as hard as it may seem. Depending on how observant your partner is, very small changes might be enough to add that little shimmer of something new. (For those of you who have not-so-observant partners you might have to hit them over the head with something more dramatic, something from the deeper crevices of your twisted imagination perhaps).Maybe your man has never had sex with a blond before so you buy a cheap wig and surprise him, or ma
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