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Sexual Humor - “That’s Sooo Immature!” 2007-10-10 14:38:42 This post is playfully sponsored by: Romantic Gifts - Learn Something New About Your Lover!
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I’m warning you right now - I’m not the most ‘cultured’ person when it comes to humor. Sure I enjoy talking to intelligently witty people and the grown-up banter of politicians (ha!)…but for some inexplicable reason the most asinine sexuality-themed funnies get me to chuckle every time!
I’m a sucker for those ridiculous birthday cards with the big-boobed women and the Chip-N-Dale men. I love penis-shaped pasta and x-rated fortune cookies. In fact, back when I had free time, I used to like going into those novelty stores just to browse around all the goofy sex stuff people have come up with. I would often think, “Someone out there actually spent time designing, manufacturing, and distributing this completely stupid flips-in-the-air pecker.” Don’t people have more important things to do with their lives?
Sexual Humor - “That’s Sooo Immature!” 2007-10-10 14:38:42 This post is playfully sponsored by: Romantic Gifts - Learn Something New About Your Lover!
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I’m warning you right now - I’m not the most ‘cultured’ person when it comes to humor. Sure I enjoy talking to intelligently witty people and the grown-up banter of politicians (ha!)…but for some inexplicable reason the most asinine sexuality-themed funnies get me to chuckle every time!
I’m a sucker for those ridiculous birthday cards with the big-boobed women and the Chip-N-Dale men. I love penis-shaped pasta and x-rated fortune cookies. In fact, back when I had free time, I used to like going into those novelty stores just to browse around all the goofy sex stuff people have come up with. I would often think, “Someone out there actually spent time designing, manufacturing, and distributing this completely stupid flips-in-the-air pecker.” Don’t people have more important things to do with their lives?
How Much is a “Woman in Heat” Worth to You? 2007-10-09 06:36:17 This post is dancingly sponsored by: UnderCoverCondoms.com - Save up to 70% off Trojan Magnum Condoms
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Turns out men think women who are “in heat” (ovulating and at the peak of their fertility cycles) are worth double what menstruating women (at the lowest point of their fertility cycles) are worth!
A new study conducted by evolutionary psychologist Geoffrey Miller from the University of New Mexico in Albuquerque found that men “tipped” lap-dancing women an average of $70 per hour while they were ovulating verses only $35 an hour when they were menstruating. Of course, the men had no conscious idea of their tell-tale tipping behavior since the women showed no outwardly overt signs of their cycle phase. (It’s not like they lap-danced with pads and tampon strings showing for goodness sake!)
So aside from the women actually telling their horny male clients they were highly fertile and ready to make babies, how in the w
Every Easily Aroused Englishman has Secrets… 2007-10-08 10:39:28 …But This One Tells Them All!
When I accidentally happened upon a blog called Easily Aroused, I knew immediately I was in for quite an erotic treat. Stylish, elegant, refined - the presentation was everything you’d expect from a classy accented man. He eloquently sipped from his single malt whiskey. His eyes nonchalantly scanned the horizon for something of interest. I held my breath, and hoped it would be me…
Or at least that’s how I imagined our first meeting. As I read through his stories, entranced and addicted, his private thoughts dripped with lustful abandon. Although his sexual frustration was evident, the sensual creativity it produced must have been a heavy consolation. I was intrigued, so naturally I wanted to know more about this “Oversexed Englishman” - his motivations, his inspirations, his history.
Turns out he’s every bit the gentleman I hoped he would be. Mr. EA graciously agreed to be interviewed for S.S. What follows is a
“Fetish, Fetish” - What the Hell’s a Fetish? 2007-10-07 13:17:38 This post is kinkily sponsored by: Pierre Silber - Sexy high heels in larger sizes. Huge Selection & Great Prices!
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We hear this word thrown around all the time. It typically conjures up images of leather, latex, and thigh-high boots being adoringly worshiped by a chain-clad submissive. But how accurate are these images? What does it really mean to have a fetish, and perhaps more importantly, is having a fetish unhealthy?
According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV), the official handbook of all psychologists and psychiatrists, a fetish is classified under the larger heading of “paraphelia.” A paraphilia is a “distressing and repetitive sexual fantasy, urge, or behavior that occurs for a significant period of time and interferes with either satisfactory sexual relations or every day functioning.” Now a fetish is broadly defined as, “the use of an inanimate object or parts of the h Read more:Fetish
Shopping Online Vs. Adult Bookstores 2007-10-06 02:51:33 This article is authored and kindly provided by Jenna!
Have you ever wanted to go in an adult bookstore but were afraid? Afraid that someone you know might see your car parked outside. Maybe you were afraid of what the sales clerk, behind the counter, would be thinking about you. Maybe you’ve been afraid because you heard the people that frequent those stores are “perverts” or “derelicts.” Or, you want to go, but your town just doesn’t have one. Whatever the reason, you didn’t go in.
You might want to check out adult shopping online. Shopping online offers many advantages over going to the local adult bookstore. First and foremost, it’s private. You’re in your own home, on your computer. Nobody will know, except you.
Now you’re wondering “What about the mailman, he’s going to deliver the products I bought. He’ll see what I purchased.” When you purchase adult products online, from a reputable store, th Read more:Adult
Free Classic Erotic Novels! 2007-10-05 10:12:33 This post is classically sponsored by: Leather 5-Zipper Corset?!
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OK you cheap (I mean “frugal!”) erotica readers out there, how does over 700 free erotic novels sound to you? Hmm, I’ll wait while you pick yourself up off the floor…
Now then, as I was saying. I’ve found a website called xNovel that offers visitors 729 (and counting) classic sexy novels absolutely free. No catch. It’s not even trying to promote another product. You can either read them right on the site or download the novels as a zip file and read them where ever and when ever you so desire. Nice, huh?
They’ve even been given a positive review by Jane’s Guide! The site claims to add at least twelve new novels a week so it should keep you hot and bothered for a long, long time. Go ahead and take a look, but don’t forget to come back here and thank me for finding such an awesome little gem!
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Sex-Tech Backlash? Longing for the Good Old Days of Skin-On-Skin 2007-10-04 07:30:36 This post is technologically sponsored by: Simply For Lovers Romantic Gifts!
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“I’m tired of using technology, why don’t you sit down on top of me? I’m tired of using technology, I need you right in front of me.” ~ Ayo Technology ~ Lyrics by 50 Cent & Justin Timberlake ~
As technology continues to aggressively permeate every aspect of our modern-day Western lives, including our closely held sexual expressions, could a sex-tech backlash be just around the corner? From cool vibes that seamlessly integrate into our ultra-slick MP3 players to the underground obsession with “fucking-machines,” it’s becoming harder and harder for the average Joe/Jane to think about sex without thinking about the battery-powered accessories that almost always go with it these days.
It’s undeniable technology has the power to enhance our sexual pleasure and to prolong our active sexuality well into our “G
Rockin’ Girl Blogger Award! 2007-10-03 08:56:45
Speak Sexy has been given a Rockin’ Girl Blogger Award!
Nellioness, the awesome person that she is, has bestowed upon S.S. this nifty award. She writes:
Erotic and provocative Rose Rivera runs a captivating blog on things sexual. She’s a sexologist, wife and intriguing blogger. With the right amount of naughtiness and seductive posts she really rocks minds and bodies. Thank you Rose, you’re a Rockin’ Girl Blogger, whether you like it or not.
Thanks so much Nelli - I really appreciate the recognition! So now, the honor falls upon me to pass this award along to five bloggers who I find inspiring, admirable, and just plain cool. Here goes…
1 + 2. Ask Dan and Jennifer - This site gets a combined guy/girl award for their amazing relationship and dating advice. Not only are they entertaining and insightful, their blogging prowess is something all bloggers should aspire to. Topping it off is their honest-to-goodness kindness which is the proverbial icing on this very fun
Dirty Talking Porn - Why are Women Always “Sluts,” “Bitches,” or “Whores”? 2007-10-02 06:07:23 This post is lovingly sponsored by: UnderCoverCondoms - Try the Condom Selector Tool to find out what’s best for you.
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Ever since we talked about the degrading-or-not porn “cum-shots” debate I’ve been ruminating over the basic elements of mainstream porn and wondering why so many women find it offensive enough that they insist on completely banning it from their households. As the beautiful sex blogger Kitty Demure pointed out, many husbands and wives find this topic to be a serious point of contention since marriages have been known to dissolve over the to-porn or not-to-porn issue. A common and particularly problematic situation arises when one partner loves to watch porn (usually the man though this is changing!), and the other partner is morally, ethically, or religiously against it.
But really, what is so wrong with watching two strangers have sex on film? After all, we watch people do all kinds of “personal&rdquo Read more:Dirty, Porn, Whores, Sluts
She’s Wet, But is She Turned-On? 2007-10-01 08:17:47 This post is sumbissively sponsored by: Wicked Temptations - Sexy lingerie, club-wear, and leg-wear!
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Subjective Arousal is Different for Men and Women
For men, the process of arousal is pretty straight forward - 99% of the time an erect penis means he feels sexually excited. Sure there are exceptions here and there, but for the most part this correlation holds true.
Women, on the other hand, are a completely different story! Although her body may be displaying signs of sexual arousal (erect nipples, dilated pupils, a wet vagina, etc.) it does not mean she is subjectively “feeling” turned-on. In fact, research has time and again demonstrated the disassociation between women’s physiological sexual arousal and their subjective experience of arousal:
“…recent attempts to improve women’s sexual function have successfully increased women’s physiological arousability but failed to produce corresponding increase Read more:Wet
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“Cum On Me Now!” 2007-09-29 04:51:05 This post is oddly sponsored by: S.S.’s Women’s Liberation Program - You can help women around the world with just one click!
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It’s become a regular staple of male-oriented pornography - the cum shot. Affectionately known as the “money shot” the image of a man ejaculating on a woman’s body, usually her face or breasts, is one of the most prized among men and despised among women.
The Sociology:
Feminists of all varieties argue that it’s degrading and humiliating to women, and that the male preoccupation with these shots stems from a lack of masculine sexual confidence in a world where women are taking control of their own sexualities as well as their lives. In a very physically visual way, cum-shots allow men to regain the “upper-hand” and to once again put women “in their place” - typically on her knees (powerless) and waiting for the man to orgasm (submissive) while completely ign
Masturbating to your lover’s voice - the high-tech way 2007-09-27 05:42:00 This post is sumptuously sponsored by: Pierre Silber - Sexy costumes, lingerie, and shoes!
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If you’re like most people, one of the most exciting parts of having sex is hearing your partner moan, sigh, growl, or talk “dirty” during those few moments of uninhibited abandon. Now wouldn’t it be nice to hear those vibrant and delicious sounds while you were masturbating? Wouldn’t it drive you over the edge with memories of their kisses, tastes, nibbles? I’m not talking about just using your imagination to recreate your partner’s wicked utterances, but actually hearing them - close, intimate, and whispered right into your ear during your most private self-appreciation sessions?
Then, my lovely reader, today is your lucky day! By combing a few high-tech gadgets and adding a little creativity, I’ve come up with a way for you to not only hear your lover’s voice - but to feel it!
The basic idea is to ma
How to Shave and Care for Your Favorite Vagina 2007-09-17 07:35:00 This post is wickedly sponsored by: Fetish Pay-Per-View - The Best Way to Watch Adult Movies!Find out how you can sponsor a post.But First, a Little Story...I remember the first time a man ever asked me to shave my vagina. I was in ninth grade, he was in tenth. We were innocently watching a movie together in his room when one thing led to another and before I knew it his sneaky fingers were down my pants. We had an exhilarating fingering session, the threat of being caught "red-handed" by a supervisory adult adding to the heat of the moment.Then we heard it. His mother calling us to dinner. The hand was immediately gone and our clothes were hurriedly straightened. After a few deep breaths to wash the tell-tale color from our cheeks, we headed for the dining room. Dinner. Silly chatting. Time to go home.As we were getting our coats, he pulled me into an empty room for the last of our nightly stolen kisses. He brushed a strand of hair behind my ear, romantically gazed into my eyes and sa
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I remember the first time a man ever asked me to shave my vagina. I was in ninth grade, he was in tenth. We were innocently watching a movie together in his room when one thing led to another and before I knew it his sneaky fingers were down my pants. We had an exhilarating fingering session, the threat of being caught “red-handed” by a supervisory adult adding to the heat of the moment.
Then we heard it. His mother calling us to dinner. The hand was immediately gone and our clothes were hurriedly straightened. After a few deep breaths to wash the tell-tale color from our cheeks, we headed for the di
Anal Bleaching, All the Cool Kids are Doing It! 2007-09-13 05:31:00 This post is generously sponsored by: MET-Art - Where flawless beauty meets art!Find out how you can sponsor a post.And by Cool Kids I mean porn stars, strippers, celebrities, and your kinky next door neighbor. Until a few days ago I'd never heard of anal bleaching. Apparently I've been completely missing this, um, "interesting" personal care trend. It's even been mentioned in big time women's magazines like Marie Claire. Since anal shaving and waxing are regular beauty Musts in today's glamorous world, I guess this is the logical next step.But what exactly is anal bleaching? For those of you who've been living under a rock like I have, the Urban Dictionary explains anal bleaching as a Cosmetic Technique:"Whereby strong bleaching solutions like hydroquinones are used to lighten the anal area. This procedure is employed by strippers, body builders, actors and actresses. Seems over time, the butticular area becomes darker (some say it's due to dark foods like coffee, others specu
Anal Bleaching, All the Cool Kids are Doing It! 2007-09-13 05:31:00 This post is generously sponsored by: MET-Art - Where flawless beauty meets art!
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And by Cool Kids I mean porn stars, strippers, celebrities, and your kinky next door neighbor. Until a few days ago I’d never heard of anal bleaching. Apparently I’ve been completely missing this, um, “interesting” personal care trend. It’s even been mentioned in big time women’s magazines like Marie Claire. Since anal shaving and waxing are regular beauty Musts in today’s glamorous world, I guess this is the logical next step.
But what exactly is anal bleaching?
For those of you who’ve been living under a rock like I have, the Urban Dictionary explains anal bleaching as a Cosmetic Technique:
“Whereby strong bleaching solutions like hydroquinones are used to lighten the anal area. This procedure is employed by strippers, body builders, actors and actresses. Seems over time, the butticular area becomes darker (some
Speak Sexy, Now Available in Surround Sound! 2007-09-11 13:48:00 As some of you clever readers may have noticed, there is a brand new "listen now" button just below the titles of every blog article. That's right, you guessed it! From now on I'll not only be able to tantalize your eyes, but tickle your ears as well. Because I've had numerous requests to create a "suitable for work" version of this site, I've taken it one step further by creating a portable, MP3 supported podcast that you can download and listen to where ever and when ever your naughty little heart desires. Just subscribe to the podcast or download individual articles, pop in your ear buds, and steal a few minutes of sexual me-time. It's a great way to unwind in traffic, at lunch, during board meetings...Your bosses will hate me, your lovers will thank me, and you'll be utterly pleased with yourself for getting around your work place's Cyber Police. Not to mention the sex God or Goddess you are certain to become.Yeah, I know. I like to spoil you guys. But hey, you are the sexie
Speak Sexy, Now Available in Surround Sound! 2007-09-11 13:48:00 As some of you clever readers may have noticed, there is a brand new "listen now" button just below the titles of every blog article. That's right, you guessed it! From now on I'll not only be able to tantalize your eyes, but tickle your ears as well. Because I've had numerous requests to create a "suitable for work" version of this site, I've taken it one step further by creating a portable, MP3 supported podcast that you can download and listen to where ever and when ever your naughty little heart desires. Just subscribe to the podcast or download individual articles, pop in your ear buds, and steal a few minutes of sexual me-time. It's a great way to unwind in traffic, at lunch, during board meetings...Your bosses will hate me, your lovers will thank me, and you'll be utterly pleased with yourself for getting around your work place's Cyber Police. Not to mention the sex God or Goddess you are certain to become.Yeah, I know. I like to spoil you guys. But hey, you are the sexie
Vibrating Your Way to Health - What You Didn't Know About the History of Vibrators 2007-09-07 05:20:00 Way back in the late 1800's the first vibrator was created as a medical device intended to treat and cure hysteria - a "disease" which only affected women and was characterized by: irritability, depression, confusion, heart palpitations, forgetfulness, insomnia, headaches, muscle spasms, ticklishness or weepiness (Lindemann, 2006).Apparently the founders of modern medicine, all men let's remember, decided that women who suffered from any of the above conditions would feel much better if they simply orgasmed more. Of course, they didn't call it an orgasm because they believed women could only experience an orgasm via penile penetration. Wasn't that convenient? Instead these "pelvic massages" and "vibratory treatments" caused "local spasms" which led to "hysterical paroxysms." Nothing sexual per se, this was medicine, not obscenity!I'm sure the women involved knew exactly what was going on. But who could blame them for seeking release where ever they could? Considering how little t
Vibrating Your Way to Health - What You Didn’t Know About the History of Vibrators 2007-09-07 05:20:00
Way back in the late 1800’s the first vibrator was created as a medical device intended to treat and cure hysteria - a “disease” which only affected women and was characterized by: irritability, depression, confusion, heart palpitations, forgetfulness, insomnia, headaches, muscle spasms, ticklishness or weepiness (Lindemann, 2006).
Apparently the founders of modern medicine, all men let’s remember, decided that women who suffered from any of the above conditions would feel much better if they simply orgasmed more. Of course, they didn’t call it an orgasm because they believed women could only experience an orgasm via penile penetration. Wasn’t that convenient? Instead these “pelvic massages” and “vibratory treatments” caused “local spasms” which led to “hysterical paroxysms.” Nothing sexual per se, this was medicine, not obscenity!
I‘m sure the women involved knew exactly what was going on. But
I Seize You 2007-09-04 06:46:00 **This Post Kindly Sponsored By - Errotica - Enter a world of intimate fantasy!**Learn how you can sponsor a post. Click here.I seize you and the momentpulling you closeMy eyes have turnedfrom sparkling blueto dark with desireMy mouth wantingfinds yours responsive our kiss almost hostilePushed against the wallmy knee pressing firmlybetween your legswe tear at each otherripping away the layersthat keep our skinfrom the heat of passion Rough hands grab fleshSoft hands pull hairWe fall wildly to the floorBy demanding will Iam pulled into youunrelenting in your needrigid in my responsealmost ruthless in our intolerable lustBreathing labored with sweatwe grind away at time each matching thrustbrings me closer to boilYou scream at the heavens your love squeezing me tightWith rapture I unleashthe heat of my intensitywe now lay satedentwined in adorationwe muse with fondnessat our sharing of loveby: Joseph - aka DiginatiiThanks so much for that steamy poem Joseph! I found this very friendly a
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I seize you
and the moment
pulling you close
My eyes have turned
from sparkling blue
to dark with desire
My mouth wanting
finds yours responsive
our kiss almost hostile
Pushed against the wall
my knee pressing firmly
between your legs
we tear at each other
ripping away the layers
that keep our skin
from the heat of passion
Rough hands grab flesh
Soft hands pull hair
We fall wildly to the floor
By demanding will
Iam pulled into you
unrelenting in your need
rigid in my response
almost ruthless in
our intolerable lust
Breathing labored with sweat
we grind away at time
each matching thrust
brings me closer to boil
You scream at the heavens
your love squeezing me tight
With rapture I unleash
the heat of my intensity
we now lay sated
entwined in adoration
we muse with fondness
at our sharing of love
by: Joseph - aka Diginatii
Thanks so much for that steamy po
Are You Waiting to be Seduced? 2007-09-02 05:54:00 It's Thursday evening and you're standing in line at the grocery store. Your significant other called just as you were leaving work to inform you that dinner would not be on the table when you got home because there was nothing edible in the house. Great. Perfect end to a crap day.You look around at all the other miserable nine to five-ers who've had to make the same dinner grabbing pit-stop as you have. And then suddenly, out of the garbled faceless crowd, you see their eyes - intent, focused, unflinching. You look behind you. Surely those eyes aren't meant for YOU. You look back cautiously, and the eyes are still there, just the same. No, a little more hungry now, a little more bold. The person smiles a little, a turning up of their lips, nothing more - but it's a smile that's universally recognizable. The one that says, "Yes, I'm looking at you and I think you look delicious."You look away and shuffle forward as the checkout line moves up, but the blush you're trying to hide
Are You Waiting to be Seduced? 2007-09-02 05:54:00 It’s Thursday evening and you’re standing in line at the grocery store. Your significant other called just as you were leaving work to inform you that dinner would not be on the table when you got home because there was nothing edible in the house. Great. Perfect end to a crap day.
You look around at all the other miserable nine to five-ers who’ve had to make the same dinner grabbing pit-stop as you have. And then suddenly, out of the garbled faceless crowd, you see their eyes - intent, focused, unflinching. You look behind you. Surely those eyes aren’t meant for YOU. You look back cautiously, and the eyes are still there, just the same. No, a little more hungry now, a little more bold. The person smiles a little, a turning up of their lips, nothing more - but it’s a smile that’s universally recognizable. The one that says, “Yes, I’m looking at you and I think you look delicious.”
You look away and shuffle forward as the checkout li
Funnies - 2007-08-27 15:43:00 Sometimes our minds are in the proverbial gutters at just the wrong times...Do you need glasses?And Finally, the Classic Blow-Job Blooper!Hope you're smiling!Rose Rivera is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in Family & Sexuality Studies. She is the owner and webmaster of Speak Sexy Blog (http://SpeakSexy.blogspot.com) and Speak Sexy Online (http://www.speaksexyonline.com), one of the fastest growing sexuality sites on the net!
Beautiful Agony...More Clips to Love 2007-08-26 13:00:00 So instead of the usual Sunday Erotica I've decided to treat you little lovelies to a bit of moving, writhing, moaning visual stimulation. I'll keep the post short and let the sensuous girl above work her magic...Oh, was that not enough for you? Here's the link to some more. As always, I wish you a relaxing Sunday with lots of dripping-wet, mouth-watering moments.Rose Rivera is a sexologist whose credentials include a MA in Family & Sexuality Studies. She is the owner and webmaster of Speak Sexy Blog (http://SpeakSexy.blogspot.com) and Speak Sexy Online (http://www.speaksexyonline.com), one of the fastest growing sexuality sites on the net! Read more:Love
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